We Need Some Time Apart

#261 Life in close quarters can be full on when you're carting your life around on a boat together, so we're spending a bit of time apart as we head back westwards along southern Portugal.
We want to take the varnish off and speak our mind about some issues that we think are important, and give you guys a sense of some aspects of our lives away from the camera.
Philosophize This! Podcast By Stephen West
Happiness Hypothesis Jonathan Haidght
Psychology Podcast - Scott Barry Kaufman
Happiness Lab
Song Credits:
00:00 Hollow Coves - Heatwave - open.spotify.com/artist/7IAFAOtc9kTYNTizhLSWM6?si=Qy2VBj1MT2exbHD77vjECQ
02:13 Good Lee & Andrew Rothschild - 24 - AndrewRothschilds/
05:58 Honey Hounds - Easy Like The Breeze - open.spotify.com/artist/2gBYe3dJe0NroE6tej4XnP
09:02 Brother Mane - Epiphany - open.spotify.com/artist/2vC1DrTfUraHejWRM6e9Bm?si=CCzX4xs6SH6tHFKH5PoPHQ
11:08 Yellow The Sun - Song For You - open.spotify.com/track/40ucfPqeCYTwSUwI9VwD9M?si=EkDlqItCSPyV2yKbLqO2Gg
14:17 Bill Beaumont - For The Birds Outside My Window - billbeaumont.bandcamp.com
17:19 Lachlan Ross - City Lights - Lachlanrossvisuals.com

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Edited by Andrew Dickerson
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  1. Annabel


    3 ساعات قبل

    It can't be easy to be so open to the public, I find it difficult to just be open to my partner. So I honestly take my hat off to you as a couple and as a little family. Thank you for sharing what you've shared over the years and good luck in your future endeavours. X

  2. Arkman


    9 ساعات قبل

    When you open the door and invite the world to become family, the tension only increases. Nothing beats anonymity and the ability to say I hate you , without having to explain it to the neighbors and friends. Of course in a good marriage , a women is secure in saying this because the good husband just wants the storm to end and get back to normal.

  3. Turtle Pwr

    Turtle Pwr

    أيام قبل

    You both are beautiful souls. Thank you for inspiring me and sharing all facets of your story. I’m grateful for all you do for us beyond the screen.

  4. Aaron Bethard

    Aaron Bethard

    أيام قبل

    You’re beautiful and he’s an awesome dude! You’re lucky to have each other!!!!!

  5. Emily REY

    Emily REY

    4 أيام قبل

    This video helped me a lot with some personal problems 😔❤️❤️

  6. Jillian King

    Jillian King

    5 أيام قبل

    Correction ......Maslow's Hierachy of Needs.... I work with young children and families and am not usually surprised when many end in divorce ..... All the usual things when both parents are working full-time with a young family, and don't have paid help or strong family support. Something usually gives as a result of the pressures they place on themselves or necessity. It's a flawed notion that 'women (or at least the primary care giver) can have it all' i.e. family, career while children are very young) The women that do manage to combine a young family with the demands of working career almost always have hired help to do the food shopping, cooking, cleaning, child caring/rearing etc. You both seem to be doing an excellent job with Lenny :)

  7. lordabhi


    5 أيام قبل

    Man - You guys are so special together. I am sure every thing will work out. So sad..

  8. Brent Jones

    Brent Jones

    5 أيام قبل

    Well done for sharing

  9. Emilee Gomez

    Emilee Gomez

    6 أيام قبل

    Jesus loves each and every one of you!

  10. Adventure Encounters

    Adventure Encounters

    6 أيام قبل


  11. Gary Mingy

    Gary Mingy

    7 أيام قبل

    Press on comrade !

  12. Peter. Hatch

    Peter. Hatch

    7 أيام قبل

    Get some strange ! Bro and when the second child comes your life is over ! Eating is not cheating

  13. Trista Gladeau

    Trista Gladeau

    7 أيام قبل


  14. Trista Gladeau

    Trista Gladeau

    7 أيام قبل


  15. Nick Twaddell

    Nick Twaddell

    7 أيام قبل

    real talk!

  16. T.N.


    8 أيام قبل

    Love this Riley and Elayna. You're incredible 'influencers'. You deserve that title!

  17. Mike Stumpgrinding

    Mike Stumpgrinding

    9 أيام قبل

    Who ever craps there pants is in charge . Wisdom

  18. Kirtan Dreamrezzer

    Kirtan Dreamrezzer

    9 أيام قبل

    Aloha, love & blessings, thought I'd share a beautiful quote: “Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.” ― Khalil Gibran, The Prophet

  19. Maria Street

    Maria Street

    9 أيام قبل

    I've known about you guys for a while but confess I haven't watched any of your videos until now. And wow, what have I been missing? For all of you La Vagabonde fans from day 1, congrats :). I'm working my way backward so I can stay current! Your latest videos have really pinpointed where I feel like I am at in my own life. Riley's line "I haven't been as happy as I should be lately" has haunted me for the past few weeks since I've watched this. So first off, Riley. I really thank you for sharing this with us. I've gotten the impression that sharing what "boat life" is really like is important to you. I think you've done a great job of this lately and everyone seems to be in full support, keep it up! Second, I have started to listen to the Happiness Lab. I'm also new to the podcast world. Not for lack of interest. More for lack of recommendations. So when someone suggests a podcast recommendation I tend to pounce on it. After listening to most of the first season I keep wondering about what La Vagabonde's experience has been with this. Did you find it helpful? I am curious if you have any suggestions on how to take the content further? How has what you have learned in the Happiness Lab influence how you spend your day to day lives? Really glad I picked up watching you when I did. Thanks for inspiring a sense of adventure in all of us!

  20. Diana Lovelady

    Diana Lovelady

    10 أيام قبل

    Love u guys and prayers for happiness and fulfillment for you guys

  21. Mark Vanderkam

    Mark Vanderkam

    12 أيام قبل

    Why not move back to Australia and run a sailing charter business which will go gangbusters with all your fame. You could also teach courses on how to run a AR-state channel. Then you can have a house on land, connections with friends, and your child can be surrounded by cousins, grandparents, other kids at daycare, etc.? Do you really want to deny your child those connections and opportunities so you can run a reality TV channel? I don't mean to be harsh and I am sure you have thought of all the options. You three are an inspiration and have touched so many lives.

  22. James Holt

    James Holt

    12 أيام قبل

    I’m gutted for you, my wife and I did the same thing years back, my son and I have never seen her since. 😕

  23. Mauro Fomiatti

    Mauro Fomiatti

    13 أيام قبل

    Suave, mari magno turbantibus aequora ventis, e terra magnum alterius spectare laborem; non quia vexari quemquamst iucunda voluptas, sed quibus ipse malis careas quia cernere suave est. Suave etiam belli certamina magna tueri per campos instructa tua sine parte pericli. Sed nil dulcius est, bene quam munita tenere edita doctrina sapientum templa serena, despicere unde queas alios passimque videre errare atque viam palantis quaerere vitae , certare ingenio, contendere nobilitate, noctes atque dies niti praestante labore ad summas emergere opes rerumque potiri. O miseras hominum mentes, o pectora caeca! Qualibus in tenebris vitae quantisque periclis degitur hoc aevi quodcumquest! Nonne videre nil aliud sibi naturam latrare, nisi utqui corpore seiunctus dolor absit, mente fruatur iucundo sensu cura semota metuque Bye

  24. Grant Botha

    Grant Botha

    13 أيام قبل

    Absolutely amazing episode! I think one of your best! Riley a thanks especially for sharing as a man your emotional challenges! Elayna we so appreciate your honesty and amazing bravery through your own anxieties! I read a book a couple of months ago by Dr Wayne Dyer, he speaks about Divine Synchronicity- it’s when things just happen or show up when we need it most! I have watched 2 episodes where you guys spoke about being real and that our emotions just happen in-spite of our ‘perfect surroundings’. At the time I really needed to hear this. So often we say words like ... oh how I wish could just sail off into the sunset ... with no worries... Thanks for your amazing input into our lives. Truly you guys are amazing! Love to you from us Grant and Laraine Botha South Africa

  25. funnyglow


    13 أيام قبل

    Beauty the scenery is so beautiful and stunning.Very enjoyable! Reminds me of my trips where I take the good music like the Guns N Roses, Imagine Draongs or the Delta Parole and then enjoy the powerful feeling of the sea. ¡vamos!

  26. Roxana Popescu

    Roxana Popescu

    13 أيام قبل

    Love your videos! So beautiful

  27. DaNimalLecToR


    13 أيام قبل

    Another thing too, just from a man to man perspective dont get yah self twisted over resenting your children when there at that age , naturally you love them but it's also very natural to kinda not like them too , they are hard work , they cant talk , they just cry to comunicaten , and its handy to leave it up to mum at that age cause they like her better, for comfort etc . Mums probably buggered too When he starts to become a little older look out the real fun begins and that's when the real best mate relationships start and yourself and mum grow another leg ,

  28. DaNimalLecToR


    13 أيام قبل

    Take a break from the you tube br0 Mum needs a break from the bubz too , And all woman need there mums or sister or aunts for support with the young fella

  29. David Robertson

    David Robertson

    14 أيام قبل

    I agree with Hollie. Mom needs time alone.

  30. Michael Livingston

    Michael Livingston

    14 أيام قبل

    It would be more shocking if the two of you always pretended things are going great. It's normal, but there's going to be a need for space. Momma needs her time with her friends and without them, but certainly needs to be given time without Lenny. Children are attention seekers and energy grabbers. We had four. The two of you need someone on land for a day or so to watch over your child while you get some time together. Life has it's ups and downs, I wish the both of you the best.

  31. Lord Killa90

    Lord Killa90

    14 أيام قبل

    A problem for me in many relationships is that I'm introverted. It's not that I don't like you it's that when I'm alone I recharge. I enjoy peace and solidarity but many don't understand it and think I'm just being un caring.

  32. 499PUCK


    14 أيام قبل

    Caveriao is a great spot. Plenty of bars and restaurants to pick from. Spent a few vacations there.

  33. Jason Kellett

    Jason Kellett

    15 أيام قبل

    Its a floating house navigating the ups and downs of life..just like us all, thankyou for the connection!

  34. Mario Coelho Vasco

    Mario Coelho Vasco

    15 أيام قبل

    Love you Guys 🥰⚡

  35. Kee-pyor Myndopen

    Kee-pyor Myndopen

    16 أيام قبل

    God, Riley would look so good in drag. Those eyes.

  36. Cory


    16 أيام قبل

    Check out James 1: 2-3. 😊

  37. Hedonist Euphony

    Hedonist Euphony

    16 أيام قبل

    14:41 😘❤️L- Tyrosine for dépression

  38. Karen N

    Karen N

    16 أيام قبل

    It is so health to be proactive in recognizing an issue before it becomes a problem. Good for you both. Reality is so important to share when a window into your life can be made to be unrealistically perfect. Thanks for sharing.

  39. Greguinho Caroco

    Greguinho Caroco

    16 أيام قبل

    Great episode guys!

  40. Curlew -

    Curlew -

    16 أيام قبل

    Where else will you find the love you both find in that little boy? You won’t. Life’s harder for everyone with children, but as time goes on the benefits are incalculable 😁👍